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Allhumdolillah! I am at a much better place since my last post with series of lab tests, utlrasounds, a mammogram and some other really scary tests, and a gut wrenching anxiety of results. I am doing well thankfully everything was clear except low iron levels with vitamin d3 deficiency. These deficiencies are now on their way to recovery. It is worth noting that I have been struggling with intense brain and physical fatigue since 2019 but not a single doctor was able to identify my problem. Once somebody is diagnosed with depression or anxiety then every health issue they complain about is looked from the psychological lenses. Nobody asked me to check iron, vitamin b12 or vitamin d3 deficiencies even my mum who is a dermatologist always assured me that I am fine and this weakness is just a phase.   It was a phase alright, it engulfed almost 8 years of my life pushed back my career and research ambitions.  This is not the case alone with me but there are many people who silentl...

Disco


April 3rd 1965, a Pakistani Pop and Disco music legend Nazia Hassan was born. More than a legend she was the first iconic figure of Pakistan who along with her brother Zohaib Hassan revolutionized music and introduced Pop music in both Pakistan and India. She recorded her first song App jaisa koi meri zindagi mei aay (‘If someone like you comes into my life’) for the Bollywood movie Qurbani in 1980 produced by Feroz Khan. She was only 15 years old then when that song’s success sky-rocketed.

Both the brother-sister duo made musical history and sold over millions of copies of their albums Disco Deewane, Young Tarang etc. – not just in Pakistan and India - but their popularity spanned across Latin America, the Middle East and South East Asia.  Nazia was the first Pakistani singer whose song made its way into the British charts. The English rendition of ‘Disco Deewane’ called ‘Dreamer Deewane’ acquired immense popularity in the West.


Regrettably, while this brother-sister duo reached peak of their fame I was too young to even comprehend what music was let alone understand their fame. However, people used to always talk about them and listen to their albums so I realized this much that Nazia and Zohaib were some really important people.

Our school bus owner, whom we all called Uncle, told me that one day while he was looking after a bookshop of his friend- Nazia Hassan stopped her car in front of the shop to get some books. She came out of her car, browsed the display window and within few minutes hundreds of people appeared out of nowhere just to have a glimpse of her- she hurried back to her and drove as fast as she could to disappear from the vicinity. 

Nazia & Zohaib in their early career
I have heard that due to her huge fan following in 1980’s not only in Pakistan but also in London her fans made it impossible for her to even get out of her home. Now we could comprehend the level of her fame from this incident.

It feels sad and surreal to say that Nazia Hassan is no longer with us; she died on 30th August 2000.  Nevertheless, even today on her birthday and especially on her death anniversary it is common to hear the sounds of her beautiful songs from many of the passing-by cars. Her fans still love her and remember her with so much adulation.

Throughout her life she was associated with many charitable organizations and always donated every penny from her music royalties to charities.

However, to me she is dear for one very important reason and that is her education. I think I was in elementary school when Nazia Hassan went to New York to work as the political analyst for the United Nations. Her detailed educational background from her early schooling to her graduation with a distinction in business administration (BBA) from Richmond University, London to her getting a law degree from Lancaster College, was published in the newspapers.

In late 80 or early 90’s BBA wasn’t a popular degree as it is today in fact it was then the very first time I ever heard that a degree called BBA exists. For some strange reason it got stuck with me and without even knowing BBA or its subjects’ details, in the spur of the moment, I decided to do BBA and Law. 

I was so crazy about doing BBA that I didn’t even research that it had accounting and economics when my background was biology and chemistry, although I hated both these subjects but it was on my Mom’s insistence that I must do my college from science subjects- she had a sheepish desire to see me as a doctor like her. Anyways after beating my brains out to study calculus and accounting I managed to respectably acquire my BBA degree. 

These are the miraculous moments when someone you have never met or do not even know properly could provide a great cue to your future. So Thank you, thank you, thank you Allah for guiding me through Nazia Hassan- may her soul rest in peace, with much love and many prayers.

Good Night!

Sonya. (Day 287)

Comments

Mom said…
One of your best blogs....Great work!
Star said…
really great.
Dr. Sonia Syed said…
Thank you so much Mom..&
Thank you so much Star...

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My Two Cents

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