Sonya Syed

Many, many apologies for responding late, and so sorry to Star for delayed publishing of your comment. For some reason I was unable to open the blog site for two days. There is a lot to say but when I am finally sitting to write my mind is running over 100 different subjects. My job is to make sense of many things and try to make it presentable to you. Days are becoming shorter by the hour, and I have a new phone to add to my already chaotic mind. For the first time in my life I have become a bit of tech savvy and bought myself a smartphone. I know to many of you its not a big deal but for somebody like me who is intimidated by technology it’s a really big step. It’s a touch phone and I am struggling to learn its many functions. At the moment I am happy with making and receiving calls, I am not ready to handle that extra small keypad used for text messages. There is a list of missed calls & unanswered messages because strangely enough these smartphones have

Thank God the blog is accessible once again. Really it felt as if I couldn’t breathe. Even though I don’t write every day yet the very thought of loosing my posts almost took my breath away, literally.    Today I am writing very first post with my eye-glasses, it feels kinda funny. I like my new glasses and thankful that they fit properly but they are a strange creature. It’s like finding your first-love, initially there are hesitations but then closeness evolves. First there was a long search to find the right frame, most of the specs looked great but they fitted badly. Some shopkeepers were reserved, gave minimum opinions but some of them started to admire every glass which I wore. ‘This suits you the most’, ‘that is the perfect frame’; I appreciate their good salesmanship but few decisions are made without any sweet-talk.    Then came the lenses stage which is the most crucial one. Eye numbers are minimal but we had to focus on the light reflection aspect becaus

Its a day of grief and humiliation for the entire nation. A factory in Karachi was ablaze killing more than three hundred people.   These are not merely three hundred people but they are three hundred families who have lost their loved ones and probably the sole bread earners of their entire family. We as a nation share their grief, and pray to God that may the departed souls rest in peace and their loved ones who are with us find some consolation and a divine way to receive livelihood.     Pain of loosing a kin in such accidents shall take time to heal, but this is also a fact that one day we all have to go. If God has decided that someone’s time to meet Him has arrived then we shall not grief too much because that would be coming in the way of His Divine Decision. However, we must learn from such disasters. We must learn that human life is not cheap, it needs to be protected, that someone’s negligence or greed doesn’t take away any innocent human. We need to und

“ Start a huge ,   foolish project   like Noah … it makes absolutely no difference what people think of you . ” Moulana Rumi … Its on few occasions that I drove in rain let alone thunderstorm but today it was one such day. Although it was not a very long drive, however I was nervous. Nervous not because I doubt my driving skills but the way traffic goes ballistic and we have hours long traffic jams. Roads were thankfully clear but everybody was in panic even if they were few minutes away from home. Then there were our beloved motorcyclists who would appear suddenly from nowhere right in front of the fast moving car. These rash bikers are not only teenagers but I have seen adults and people with their wives and little children driving frantically. All I can do is pray that they all get some sense and do not become a threat for themselves or for anyone else on the road.     Whatever may be state of affairs with the weather one thing is for sure and that

Before we get on with the main post I would address few queries regarding first chapter of the story which I published yesterday. Dear reader, if you would notice when Akev narrated the story he began by saying that Sheherzad was known for her beauty. You see it was quite common in earlier times that Queens became famous for their beauty or wisdom or both, and their fame was not limited to their country but it extended throughout the world, without any media. In fact in those days many wars were fought just to marry a beautiful queen. Cleopatra was and still famous for her beauty, Queen of Sheeba (Queen Bilqis) became renowned in her times for wisdom & Mughal Empress Nur Jehan was recognized for her ability to rule. Then there was Lakshmi Bai, the Rani of Jhansi who was famous for her courage and rebel against the British Raj . History is full of such examples.  Likewise our Arhan was also aware of the beauty of Sheherzad as was everybody in the Kingdom of Prussia and

At last, after a bit of trimming and embellishing the story is now taking some shape. Today I am publishing its first chapter; you can find it on the new page titled Sheherzad and the Lumberjack on this blog. Do read it and give me your remarks. Its been so long that we Karachites patiently waited for rain and today when it happened the joy it gave us is beyond words. Heat is reduced considerably, weather is lite but we wish for more. Ok today I shall be brief because all my energies are utilized in the story. Take care. Sweet Dreams.. Sonya. (Day 350)

My long awaited desire has been fulfilled, today I went for my eye check up and have been told that from now on I would be wearing eye glasses while reading, driving and most of the time to relive the discomfort. Although with grace of God the eye-sight is still 6/6 but I need to protect my eyes from the reflection of light on the computer screen. We need to be very careful before we wish for something. When I was 10 years old I saw my elder cousin who used to wear plain eye glasses and that gave her a persona, for some reason I liked it so much that I bought a pair of plain eye glasses for myself, however, I couldn’t wear them for more than few minutes because they gave me a headache. So today when my long awaited wish has been granted I am more than happy, although I could have relived the discomfort by doing acupressure on eye points but no I was keen to have a new specs; however, this time I needed a solid reason for buying my favorite pair. I know I really sound sill

Many thanks to my friends and all of you for your warm comments and sharing your beautiful moments with us. Friends, I believe is one such topic which always strikes some deep chord of our hearts. I always cherish friendship because this is the relationship which we make ourselves and sometimes it lasts for a life time. There have been moments, some tough times in my life and had there not been the support of my friends it would have been difficult for me to make it through. So I owe a lot to my family and friends for putting up with me. These days for one reason or the other I am spending my time mostly with teenagers or young adults who are entering into 20’s. Either we take boys or girls I see most of them in depression or in some unknown anxiety. Some concern about their financial situation while others worry about their career and studies. Reason could be many but their feelings are almost the same, that they don’t feel good. I do my best to befriend and co